The world around us is beginning to pick up its own pace as things continue to shift and change around us. This means that we too need to be ready and willing to shift and change. Chiron, one of the minor planets, is moving through our collective astrology at present, coming in to assist us. Chiron is known as the wounded healer and is here to bring up our old deep wounds for us to truly let them go, once and for all.
Throughout April and the beginning of May, I have been aware that some of my clients and the wider public have been having challenging experiences in which I have seen these patterns coming into play. Personally, I had a situation arise for myself which triggered my old wounding of feelings and beliefs around not feeling heard, especially by close family members, and because of this I got into a profound conversation with a friend, which led me to some deeper inner musings which I’d like to share with you.
My friend asked me the following question: “What would the world look like if none of this mattered?” And my immediate response was: “Life would flow with a sense of grace and ease as I would be giving myself permission to be me as I, too, let them be them.” I then added: “I’m here and I have a right to be me.”
We had such an enjoyable conversation discussing how this is one of the biggest unravellings for each and every one of us: giving ourselves permission to be who we truly are without needing to wait for others to accept us. It isn’t easy! We have been conditioned by society and it is now time for us to truly believe and love ourselves just as we are.
Our Biology and Our Frequency: The Interplay
The need to be validated, to be heard, to be understood, is huge – it is part of our biology. Our brains are fired to think and believe what it is that we believe others to be thinking and feeling. Our hormonal system needs to be validated and accepted – it needs to feel and belong – but in doing so, we are going against our evolutionary process.
Our nervous system is interlinked to our inner child: to our little girl; our little boy who is waiting for and wanting approval from his/her family. It is woven into our bodies and is a part of our chemistry. It is now time for us to step into the space where we can learn to unwind from this chemistry, because it is really important for our evolution.
As we learn to connect to the frequency that we carry within us we begin to connect to the energy and frequency of unconditional love that we have for ourselves – the unconditional acceptance of self. The more we connect to this frequency, to this higher vibrational energy of self-love, we can then begin to radiate it out into society like a wave, like a ripple.
The more we connect to this frequency, the less we crave (or need) approval from society, so how society responds to our frequency does not matter because we are in our own place of acceptance for ourselves. As we do this,other people’s issues and projections start to fade away; they become so unimportant in the grand scheme of life.
As a collective we are going through this transition and we are starting to realise the following in relation to others: ‘What you think of me, your judgement, how you are perceiving me, what you say to other people about me is the biggest load of bu*****t. If I am in a place of unconditional love, I will look at every single person with love.’
In turn, you will look at every single person with the sense of knowing that you can stand in their shoes and see where their childhood issues are; you will understand why someone is doing what they’re doing and you will love them regardless. That is where we are heading and it is the hardest transition.
Now, I have done a lot of work on myself and I have a deep understanding and sense of self, but I continue to be a work in progress, as does everyone else. I now need to be able to look at my family, my brother, my husband and others through the eyes of understanding that they are here having this human experience. I need to let them be who they choose to be and allow myself to be me.
We need to see, feel and live life through the vibration and frequency of unconditional love, and we need to let go of the judgment of others and of ourselves. I now accept the fact that others can’t necessarily accept me, but as I accept myself I no longer care about this. I understand the concept and know I’m a work in progress in fully embodying this work.
Looking at the World Through the Eyes of Deep Love
I am committed to looking at the world through the eyes of deep love. This is what we all need to learn for the evolution of mankind. As we make the shift, as we have clarity, this can become our new normal. This work is key to helping people come out of their minds and into their hearts and as we drop into our hearts our nervous system resets. At present, our nervous system is part of the loop that keeps us stuck.
We need to learn to stop reacting and to start responding. It is time for us to put our wisdom hats on by allowing ourselves to come from a place of love and allowing ourselves to be vulnerable. As we see others as a mirror, we can open ourselves up to a different mindset of ‘Let me listen to you, let me connect with you.’ The softness can shift relationships into a different space and the bravest thing is to continue regardless. This is the aim, but we are not going to get it right every time, so be gentle with yourself.
If the softness does not work then maybe the relationship is there to test our boundaries. Remember, life is an experiment. We need to bring acceptance and compassion inside, to be accepting and compassionate to the self. I now realise that I need to accept my differences to give myself permission to stand out. I invite you to do the sameand to shine your beautiful self out into the world.
We repeat history until we choose to break the patterns and the moulds, and rest assured we are here to break these patterns and moulds! It is the hardest thing to do, yet it is what will set us apart from everyone else.
Be your own powerhouse, give yourself the permission to be you, allow yourself to stand out, to be seen, to be heard, to be noticed – just for being you. Remember, you are amazing and we need you. This is the end of the old and the beginning of the new and we need to continually upgrade our operating system for our ever-changing and exciting new world.
As you navigate all that unfolds, healing and meditation are two wonderful tools to assist you in connecting to the love, peace and calm within. Bringing you back into balance, enabling you to soften, open and expand your heart space, learning to know yourself on a soul level.
Please do get in touch if you have any questions or if you would like my support. I’d love to assist you on your healing journey and guide you through empowering meditations as you connect ever more deeply into your own sovereignty. I love holding space for each and every one of you. Contact me on +61 4 2451 8884 or email hello@pippaneve.com.
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